3rd quadra: the rational dual pair
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Logical-intuitive extravert
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ethical-sensory introvert
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© From: V.Meged, A.Ovcharov. Learn
To Manage People Efficiently, 2000.
The Enterpriser' activities are pragmatically directed;
he likes to spearhead the newest developments of science and technology
up to practical implementation. He pays attention to everything unusual
and less studied, but more willingly he is occupied with things bringing
material profit. The Guardian needs such a hardworking partner, who
can provide the necessary life standard; he helps his partner by accomplishing
all undertakings, taking care of details and sparing material resources.
Without such assistance The Enterpriser can be too extravagant, reckless
and neglectful of his responsibilities, getting attracted to other things.
The Enterpriser sees perspectives and positive trends
in development of business. He bravely takes risk, making great investments
and bets. He is very optimistic and ardent in his dealings, which sometimes
leads him to failure. But he never loses heart and with the same enthusiasm
starts everything up again.
The Guardian likes such an impulsive and unpredictable
partner, who does not let him get stuck with weighing all pros and cons
of a decision. It helps to avoid the distressful feeling of uncertainty
by confronting him with the fait accompli. Any waiting for the definite
outcome is painful for The Guardian; he can becomes indecisive, too
conservative and fussy. The Enterpriser with his characteristic sense
of humor allays all his partner's apprehensions and takes the initiative
in his own hands. He distracts from unnecessary details, thus targeting
The Guardian to more global actions.
The Enterpriser is hardly capable of safeguarding achievements,
keeping old traditions and customs. He neglects his own time (and sometimes
others), when he has an interesting conversation. For these reasons he
may be late for meetings and behind on commitments. By contrast, The Guardian
is punctual and attentive. He 'calculates' his time and energy and then
spends them rationally and evenly. He tries to makes sure that others
are timely as well. His life may become monotonous when his partner does
not inspire him with new projects and ideas, which he hardly notices on
his own.
In communication The Guardian creates a certain distance,
even when he tries to be kind and polite. He is mistrustful and critical
and increasingly demanding. The Enterpriser creates a relaxed, natural
and easy atmosphere of communication. But his jokes tend to be out of
place or ambiguous.
The Guardian watches and corrects his dual's mistakes.
He succeeds in doing this as much as The Enterpriser succeeds in releasing
tension in relations with people. The Enterpriser may become a victim
to people who exploit his unwariness. The Guardian understands the
nuances of relationships and sees what people really want. He takes preventive
actions to counteract deceitful people and actions. He thus saves his
dual from false friends.
The Guardian diligently performs routine tasks; he
is well aware of what people need not in the future, but in the here and
now, and finds an active supporter in his dual.
The Guardian is capable of handling great tasks for
extended periods without relaxation, enduring difficulties and illness.
He can be quite tolerant, but if irritated, he may strike a blow in the
enemy's most vulnerable spot, teaching him a good lesson. In achieving
his goals he is insistent, demanding to himself and others, and thus he
stabilizes his restless dual, who tends to squander his energy in conflicting
directions.
The Guardian likes justice and objectivity. He wants
to know what is legal and what is not. He is not sure of his own skills
and is mistrustful of compliments, especially concerning his talents,
possibilities and business skills. On the other hand, he is sure about
his rights and power. Being well aware that The Enterpriser does not
always properly protect his interests, he bravely repulses those who encroach
upon them. He is thankful to the Enterpriser for demonstrating by real
facts that there is nothing impossible for The Guardian, that he does
everything well, either by himself or in cooperation with his partner.
The Enterpriser finds ways out of difficult and intricate
situations and by doing this also inspires his dual with the feeling of
a secure future, which is so important for this worrisome person. He suggests,
what can be required from whom in certain affairs and why, who possesses
which talents and how they can be used.
This dual pair is distinguished by such qualities as
endurance, hard work and the sense of justice, which sometimes turns into
critiquing self and others.
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