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2nd quadra: the irrational dual pair
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Sensory-logical extravert
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intuitive-ethical introvert
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© From: V.Meged, A.Ovcharov. Learn
To Manage People Efficiently, 2000.
The Commander is decisive and purposeful, brave and
full of initiative. He is capable of persevering a long time towards his
goal, overcoming any difficulties at his way. He is not always capable
of taming his emotions and outbursts of wrath, but can subordinate others
to him and make them do what he wants. The Lyricist lacks such decisiveness;
he admires strong people possessing leadership skills. He tries to be
useful to them by giving cautionary advice.
The Lyricist foresees very well the negative outcome
of certain actions of The Commander. He watches people's emotional reactions
and then suggests to the Commander measures to influence them. Without
such advice The Commander may act precipitately. The Commander possesses
good organizational skills. He has a talent for planning actions, distributing
duties and resources. The Commander at the same time lacks diplomacy.
He will manipulate people like inanimate objects, not reckoning with their
feelings and interests. Thus he turns people against him but he does not
understand why. The Lyricist softens his authoritarianism, tuning him
up to a warmer attitude. He advises to be diplomatic, calms him down,
releases The Commander's irritability by jokes and compliments made
at the right moment. At the same time he creates the atmosphere of politeness,
being aristocratic, 'keeping aloof', regulates distance in communication,
as soon as he feels the partner is ready to insult him. In this way The
Lyricist avoids possible confrontation.
The Commander tends to doubt not only the good attitude
of others towards him, but also noble motives of others. He rather notices
people’s negative traits more than positive ones. Sometimes he is
excessively suspicious, afraid of treason, and for this reason tends to
surround himself by favorites whom he trusts. The Lyricist neutralizes
The Commander's prejudice by his trustful and kind manner of communication,
neutralizing his suspicions by assertions of his loyalty.
The Lyricist is capable of choosing a moment for sudden
decisive actions, which discourages opponents, and this makes him useful
to The Commander, who appreciates his original advice. The Lyricist
attracts people and manipulates their feelings and relations. He looks
forward and prepares for the future in advance. He finds necessary acquaintances
and fulfillers for his projects. Unlike The Commander, he is optimistic
and can inspire others with his optimism, especially his dual, who values
interests in concrete affairs over all and so expects from others dirty
tricks rather than assistance. It is for this reason he loses adherents
and falls into depression caused by bad foreboding.
The Lyricist's shortcoming is his inclination to blame
others considering them guilty of his own misfortunes. The Commander
easily calms down his dual by threatening to punish the offenders and
to restore justice. Sometimes he puts The Lyricist to shame, teaches him
lessons of courage and endurance. Together with such a strong personality
The Lyricist is ready to overcome everything, believing in success. He
needs moral support, without which his vital tonus decreases. He needs,
too, a support of an authoritative partner, who understands instructions
and rules, possesses penetrative skills, realism and practical intelligence.
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